Kadang kadang tu aku rasa pelik dengan keluarga yang suka memusnahkan hubungan satu sama lain. Bukan kerana apa, tapi macam you know its so weird can't you think yang you are hurting your own blood. Sepatutnya among families orang kata kalau cubit kaki kiri, kaki kanan akan terasa. Tapi there are some family generally speaking lah kan, they are not bersatu. It's so sad bila tengok keadaan sedemikian because yang akan merana dan sengsara is always the children. Where I came from, cousins are really close more than adik beradik. So I know buat jahat ke buat baik bersama sama ke bersama family. Seriously I love my cousins. I am close to especially 2 of my cousins ni. If they see my blog they will know I am talking about them. I am the oldest among them but sometimes I feel like I am not heheh. It is nice having life so close to the family. As you grow older you will realize that even your husband does not matter because he might leave you either bercerai hidup atau bercerai mati but when shit happens, you can always count on your cousins to help you, to calm you down, to everything lah. 

There are some family i encounter ni hmmmmp uncle bole ada rasa irihati jealous pada niece atau nephew dia sendiri. That is really wrong and totally weird and stupid. Why? Itu anak sedara kau bro. Darah daging kau. Anak kepada kakak/abang/adik kau. Why would you wanna hate your own blood. Why be jealous kalau anak sedara kau berjaya ke kaya dari kau ke hidup senang dari kau atau anak anak kau. Kau bodoh ke apa. Orang kalau dia senang kau patut bangga. Sekurang kurang nya dia tak menyusahkan kau bila dia senang dia bole jaga diri dia sendiri, family dia sendiri atau mak dia sendiri atau bapak dia sendiri. Sebab kalau dia susah kau nak ke tolong dia? Tu satu persoalan lagi. Maybe kau ok tapi bini kau tak suka. Atau bini kau ok tapi kau je perangai serupa musibat. Hmmmp. This does not just happen in drama, this happen in real life. I have seen it myself. Kesian lah. Orang yang dah tua, yang mana bila dia dah mati nanti anak anak sedara ni lah tukang nak baca talqin tukang tolong urus mayat kau dgn anak anak kau tapi kau sanggup aniaya diorang? Seriously, kau rasa kau tu jenis hidup lama ke? Atau kau rasa mayat kau akan bergolek masuk ke kubur? Hmmmp hopefully orang orang jenis macam ni akan bertaubat dan berubah. Sebab by the end of the day, no matter kau pernah gaduh, tengah gaduh atau rasa macam nak gaduh, family kau tetap akan ada untuk kau, kau akan tetap kembali kepada family kau. No matter what. Cuma jangan tunggu sampai time kau nak berbaik sudah terlambat. Kau kena ingat hukum karma Allah tu benar. Jangan amik mudah. Kalau tak kena kat kau kena kat anak anak kau. Cuba check tengok. Adakah anak anak kau bahagia hidupnya? Maybe kaya tapi adakah bahagia? Adakah anak anak kau berjaya? Maybe dapat harta dari kau itu tak bole dikira berjaya. Cuba check tengok. Jika banyak tidak dari iya cuba kau take a step back, muhasabah diri kau lihat di cermin kemudian fikir, dimana silap kau. Bro no human are perfect. But if you realize your mistake and you make an effort to change than you are excellent dah bro. Mistake is a mistake if you do it once. If you do it twice it is not longer a mistake but its a choice. 

Ada pulak sometimes aku terlihat family ok relationship nya tapi bila mana masuk orang ketiga, seperti maybe for example cousin cousin, Dalam dok ok semua tetiba salah sorang kawen. Kemudian tengok tengok dapat laki macam sial. Dahhhhh relationship cousin between cousin ni makin pudar. This is really not good. I mean come on lah, this cousin is stuck because that is the husband, the other side is her own family blood, her cousin. Maka dengan itu bermula la episod sakit hati, kurang senang dan sebagainya antara families. Ko rasa bagus ke benda tu berlaku. Yang jantan ni pon satu hal, kau dah masuk family tu kau nak porak peranda kan family tu. Eh bro, kalau kau buat dajal dengan bini kau ke kau cerai dia ke apa, dia takde siapa kecuali keluarga dia. Tak kisah la family yang mana but family is family. 

There are a lot of examples if i nak cerita macam sampai esok pon x abes seriously but listen, family is family. They will always be family no matter what no matter what happen even if you die tak akan putus status family tu. Before you want to destroy a family you must think. Think properly. What if someone else do it to you and family? What if someone else ruin your family? Would you like it? No right? So dont do things to people that you do not want other people to do it to you back. It's wrong, it's totally wrong. How can you sleep at night knowing that you are not nice to your family member? Knowing that you screw your own blood? Knowing you ruin a happy family? Knowing you hurt your wife/husband? How? 

I seriously don't understand. As for now, for me, I am praying that my own will not fall apart. Because bahagia bukan selalu but than again there is always rainbow after the rain soooo................kita berserah je lah yer tak. Hmmmppp

Peace no war!

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